March 4, 2006

• Ahh, the weekend!

  
  

  My mom and step-dad are here so we can do a birthday weekend.  It’s my sister-in-law, my daughter, my mom and my birthdays all in a couple of weeks, so we usually just have one nice dinner when we all try to get together.  It used to be Bob’s birthday, too, but, well, I usually light a candle for him.  He would be 50 this year……..

  
  

  It’s also one of my sister’s birthdays, but she’s on my dad’s side, so she’s not in this big celebration we have.  Oh, and now I have one of Rick’s sisters birthday, too!  Can you believe his baby sister and I were born on the same day?  She’s 3 years older than me, but we’re both born on March 12.  I’m gonna be the big 4-3 this year!  Woot! That’s the percent body fat I am! So I think it’s very age appropriate!

  
  

  I’ve been tagged by at least 4 different people to talk about my perfect lover, so avert your eyes! Mayday! Mayday!

  
  

  I am one of those people that think it is very important that you educate yourself in the art of sex.  Doing the Hokey-Pokey keeps the generations coming along, but if you are doing it for pleasure…….then take the time to learn some stuff to make it enjoyable and fresh!

  
  

  When my daughter turned 18, one of the gifts I gave her was the book “The Joy of Sex”.  When my son turned 18, I didn’t give it to him, because he was in a serious relationship with his girlie (still is), and I didn’t want to embarass her, or make her think I was any freakier than she already did.  What is so funny about this is, a few months ago, I asked him privately if he would like me to get the book for him, as I feel it would help him, and he looked me right in the eye and said “We’ve already bought it…..”  Now, THAT’S my boy!  Making sure he knows what he’s doing! *chest swells with pride*  A good lover goes a long way in a relationship!

  
  

  So, now that you know I’m serious about this stuff, here goes………..

  
  

  1.  A good lover must be helpful around the house.  Couch potatoes need not apply.  I think about that episode of “Everybody Loves Raymond”, where he’s doing some chores, and his wife tells him, “You are turning me on so much right now!”  LOL!  It’s true!

  
  

  2. A perfect lover shares secrets with me.  Rick has this little smile I only see when he’s looking at me.  No one else gets that smile.  God, I love that!  I always think of that song “Nobody knows it, but you’ve got a secret smile, and you use it only for me”.  I just want to eat him up when I see that smile.

  
  

  3. A perfect lover is clean and smells good. 

  
  

  4. A perfect lover is not afraid to try new things.  I remember when I first started seeing Rick, I asked him if he was “trainable” and he looked me right in the eye and said “absolutely!”  He had no idea at the time how important that response was………heh, heh, heh………

  
  

  5.  Nice sized equipment is most certainly a plus, but as the old saying goes “Its not the size of the ocean, its the motion of the ocean”.  My first husband was not a porn star by any measure, but he took the time to learn me, and to know what made me get to a happy place.  Now, Rick is like a Christmas present!  Woot!  He’s very interested in making me happy, lets me be in charge, lets me know what he likes,…….it was so fun getting to know him, showing him some things, letting him experiment on me…….I think sometimes sex gets old when you’re with the same person for many years, you’ve gotta work to keep it fresh, gotta try new things.  I’ve had fun watching Ricks eyes get big when I try something out on him! God he’s fun……….where is he?!  BRB…….

  
  

  6.  A perfect lover tells you how great you look and how sexy you are, breathes that wonderful hot breath on your neck, acts like you are a delicious dessert and he can’t get enough…….

  
  

  7. A perfect lover has got your back.  He’s in your corner. I have no doubt I am number one in my lovers heart, and that is so hot!

  
  

  8.  A perfect lover has to know how to kiss well.  Not just smacking and forcing a tongue down your throat, but how to nuzzle, how to tease, how to lick, how to…….dammit!  BRB………..

  
  

  9. Whew! I’m getting tired!  A perfect lover know how important fore-play is to a woman……the snuggling, cuddling, laughing, touching…….crap!

  
  

  10.  A perfect lover knows how important after-play is, too.  The lying there, all sweaty and spent, limp in his arms, telling him how fabulous he is and how much I love him, his sweet little kisses……..yeah……that’s wonderful…….

  
  

  OK, I gotta go take a shower now…..Have a great weekend! 

  
  

   

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